Strategies
for Avoiding Caregiver Burnout
Caregiving for an elderly loved one can be
very rewarding, even when it is hard work and
causes stress. No one can be fully prepared
for all of the challenges of caregiving, though.
The task and responsibilities involved can
be demanding. Caregiving presents physical
and mental and, usually, financial challenges
to the caregiver. Caregiving often involves
sacri-fices, restrictions, and competing responsibilities.
The
many conflicts and responsibilities that come
with caring for an older person can iso-late
a caregiver, compromise relationships, threaten
job opportunities, and lead to mounting anger,
frustration, guilt, anxiety, depression, stress,
and a sense of helplessness and ex-haustion
that is sometimes called caregiver burnout.
Caregivers
can do only so much as individuals, and the
help they may receive from family members
and friends may not be enough. The Merck Manual
of Health & Aging offers the following
strategies for avoiding caregiver burnout:
- Learn about the cause,
symptoms, and course of the person’s
condition. Antici-pate changes.
- Let the older person
make his own de-cisions and solve problems
if he is
able. Set limits
to the amount of assistance offered if
necessary.
- Avoid taking an older person’s
anger, frustration, or difficult behaviors
per-sonally.
These behaviors may be symp-toms of a
disorder such as dementia.
- Avoid arguments.
- Delegate responsibilities
and ask other family members and friends
to help whenever
possible.
- Ask for help from trustworthy
family member, friends, or neighbors.
Be ex-plicit but
reasonable about expecta-tions. Avoid
criticism as long as the person helping is responsible.
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- Discuss feelings and experiences with
others, either informally or through
a support group.
- Eat and exercise regularly, and sched-ule
regular time for relaxing, enjoyable
activities.
- Obtain information
about the older per-son’s resources;
avoid depleting per-sonal finances.
- Contact
organizations that can provide
information and referrals for caregivers.
- Consider
day care or respite care be-fore the
burden of isolation or of care-giving
grows too great.
- Remember that assisted
living facilities and nursing homes
may be the best option.
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